![]() ![]() And, you guessed it: I wasn’t following any of the Smart Girl Rules, especially not RULE #1 NEVER CALL. When I was first dating James, the man who is now my ex, he wasn’t in love with me. ![]() You definitely want to see him, you just didn’t have time to call. YOU don’t call, but when HE does, you are extremely kind, warm and funny. So, if you don’t ever call him, how on earth will he ever know you are interested in him? THIS is why THE TRICK is so unbelievably important. The second a guy KNOWS you are interested, he is no longer interested himself. He can THINK you are interested, he can HOPE you are interested, he can even ASSUME you are interested. There is absolutely no way around this fact. In the beginning of a relationship, men need at least a little bit of a challenge. ![]() WHAT IS SO BAD ABOUT HIM KNOWING THAT I WANT HIM? All of this could have been avoided if you had just been patient and didn’t call. Think about it: if he’s in the middle of doing something, he’ll probably get off the phone before you do (which is breaking another rule you should always end the conversation first), and you’ll be anxious all day, waiting for him to call you back. If you call him, he’s probably in the middle of doing something, which just puts you in an awkward situation and makes it even more obvious as to why you shouldn’t have called in the first place. Not only is this true, but also, if he’s not calling you, it’s probably because a) he doesn’t feel like it, or b) he’s busy. It automatically shows him that you’re willing to make the effort to call, that you thought about him before calling (which means you care), that you’re really not that busy, and that you’re impatient. So, here’s why you shouldn’t call: When you call a guy, it means that you want him. ![]() Then again, the woman reading this most likely isn’t one to sit still, look pretty and never question, and for that I am grateful. First, this will all be much easier if you don’t question me and instead just follow the Smart Girl Rules. I know you feel sorry for him when he has to lift his heavy iPhone (actually, the X plus is massive), unlock the screen with meticulous effort, dial an entire set of 10 digits, and then move his whole arm towards his precious ear to call you. My mother always says, when a man truly wants something, he will do whatever it takes to get it. If he really wants you, he will call you. Trust me, it works! I know from personal experience. No matter what you may think, no matter how many times he’s called first, no matter what-do not call him. Honestly, if you ever forget any of the Smart Girl Rules, don’t let it EVER be Rule #1. Be flirtatious, be warm, be funny, be charismatic, be relaxed, and be kind. When you do communicate with him, be it by phone, message, update status, Instagram, and so on, BE SUPER SWEET. The trick relates to every single Smart Girl Rule. If he doesn’t call, he doesn’t want to call. If he calls and the call got disconnected, he will call you back – if he wants to. If he calls you and you don’t answer, he will call you again. If you’re a Smart Girl and you follow the Smart Girl Rules, you just won’t ever have to. You’re going to ask your mother if you should call. You’re going to ask your friends if you should call. ![]()
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